Adult dating the bases

Remember, Wondering, these can vary among different people, so don't be embarrassed to ask your friends exactly what they mean when they talk about the different bases - you may find that you aren't the only one who needs some clarification on both the bases and the definition of sex.

Third base = petting or orally stimulating below the waist, including touching, feeling, and fondling the vagina, clitoris, penis, or testicles.

Second base = petting above the waist, including touching, feeling, and fondling the chest, breasts, and nipples.

First base = kissing, including open-mouth (or French) kissing.

While there's no "official" definition of what the bases represent, there seems to be a general understanding of each base: Batter up! Whether you're hitting a home run or striking out, it helps to have the low down on the latest sexual terminology - not just because others are talking about it, but it may be helpful when communicating with potential partner(s).